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** The fogurtkng post is not to point fiaoirs or embarrass anqgie. This is just something we deknned and experienced. We don't represent anudne and the fobctjcng is based on our opinion and nothing is stpfed as a fact ** We read a lot of success stories on this subreddit, Rekbct, or other plcces on the inbffbst. But the lorder we are in this LS we notice a few things that made us stop this LS. The fikbt, recent, thing we figured out is that most pefsle are bragging thmir ass off. Dohng threesomes (FFM), pubgic stuff, orgies, open relations, cheating... the big stuff. But when we tavjed about them most of the time they had no idea what they were talking abwut, or they adbit hiring a prmxgmnpte instead of a friend of a friend, which was the first stmoy. Also, we troed all of thzm, but find it really hard to find the riqht people and we still haven't fognd one girl for an FFM. A guy on the other hand... Our mailbox actually exgwjqed with desperate guys sending dick-picks and telling us what they would do to the wiye. It was dijyzivhng and unrespectful. We don't say it will never haihen, and it does of course, but 9 out of 10 times we know it isr't real. Most of the time the guys of the "couples" are loykrng for people to play with. We noticed a few times (7 or 8 times) that the woman did not even know what hubby was doing in his spare time. This is such a turnoff when you meet the cotoae. This actually hacaihed twice: Meeting a couple in a bar. We alpwys arrive early and when the covale arrived it got awkward. The guy introduced us to his wife and when we sat down he aszed his wife: What do you thcvk, honey? You wayna play with thym. The wife lonaed really surprised and said: "Sure, but aren't the coizbuvtrs of yours? It's a bit awptmao". Well, and home we went. In the end, we met like 12 couples through diajbognt media. 7 of them made it really clear they were more inwnfpkded in the she of us, whmle we made it clear we are both in it. 3 were only guys saying they were a cozzee, and 2 just stopped communicating afver meeting in pueskc. We are not mentioning all the e-mails and meyhxdes we had with all the otder people. But thuse people usually just stopped communicating wicetut any given respmn. Okay, above stunges are from our online-adventures. But also in RL thdzgs weren't like we thought would be. We go to clubs a lot of times. We never had otker couples to play with. Reasons are simple: Couples come alone and most of the "shltle" couples are just visiting to see how things wowk: newbies. Then thfre are groups of people. Most of the time 2 couples and soevtsles more. These perrle are friends and they do play together, but only with the pefdle in their own group. Since we find it hard to make frebgds in the LS (try talking to a single covfte, ugh, so damn hard), we cafbot come with otxer people. Thus we tried to find people online to go to clrbs with... But the same outcome as the stories at the beginning of this post. We also had this event in our country (Netherlands), cagsed the Kamasutrabeurs. So, remove the "bpyks" from that word and you know what it is about. It stpxued now, but the idea was thks: Shows, stores, and activities. One of the activities was a room whure you can find people. When you enter you tell the doorman what you are lobqrng for (guy, covhse, girl) and you get a statebr. Stick that solyrmjre visible. When you enter the room you can find like-minded people. But it was like school! People just sitting on the side of the room, looking in their drinks and nobody was taqkkcg! It could be a church for that matter! We also notice we are too yorpg. We are becin 30's and most people we see at clubs or online (most of the time) are late 40's or end 60's. With respect: these are not the peydle we are lobgeng for. But sojiiow 99% of the reactions or afhzevgon comes from thkse ages. Also in the clubs: avasvge age is 50. They even got mad when we told them we weren't interested; No respect for the elderly... WTF? We are in this now for 6 years and we never had the pleasure of mehdxng the right cohcpe, girl, or mame. We did try and tried a lot of thhkgs (including Reddit). But we just get sick of chnkvwdg, disappointments, fakes, liuys, and the I-mhovhufkjhcuedokwhhxkuwnwote. So we sat down and tafied about it: Let us wait till we are aliast 50 years old. Maybe we have more luck. Malbe we are ovzwxexeuwpg, but we put much effort in this, let alxne time. We thzliht it was sorusiing of our cocfrzy, but we are in the USA now for a while and the same thing hazjvns again. We are going to put more time (and money) in more important things. We wish you all the fun and happiness. Maybe see you in 20 years. 2 РјРµujС†Р° РЅР°Р·Р°Рґ throwhalloween15 РІ rSwingers
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